Catch him and keep him

For women, the main objective in a relationship is getting the guy and keeping him. Women want the secret on how they can catch him and keep him. Women and men are so different that it seems women will never figure out what it takes to catch him and keep him. It seems like some foreign concept. Getting a man's attention and then being able to keep it is something women have been working at for centuries. Is there really a way to catch him and keep him?



The ability to catch a man and keep him is something that can be done. It is all about attitude. Men are not as superficial as they appear. They are not only interested in beer, sex, food and sports. They have emotional needs too and some of their needs are even greater than a woman's. What it takes to catch and keep a man is to know what they want and what makes them attracted to a women in the first place.


Here's a list of some of the things that a women can use to catch a man. If she's smart she will not only use these ideas to catch a man, but keep them up so she doesn't lose him.


- Use humor. Everyone appreciates humor, even men. Men respond amazingly to humor and women will find that by using it they will become very attractive to men.


- Act smart. Despite the fact that people assume men love dumb women, the opposite is really true. Men want a women who can think on her own. They do not want the hassle of having to deal with someone who is an airhead. Being ditzy may attract some men but it sure won't keep them so acting smart is always the best bet.
- Show appreciation. Men like to know they are needed. However, don't be too needy. Men don't want a women who is clingy, but they do want to know they are appreciated and that a women is grateful they are around.
- Keep an eye on the details. While men are rather understated and do not verbalize things as much as women, they do use subtle cues to let you know about them. Usually a man will have something about themselves that they are particularly proud of. If a woman notices it then she has his attention.


- Show confidence. It is a known fact that confidence is one of the best traits any person can have. Men are especially attracted to women who display confidence.


These are just some of the things you can do to catch him and keep him. Just remember that you have to keep doing them or he will eventually get bored and keeping him will be difficult.




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Jane Haller runs a site called along with info on dating and relationship on her blog at at http://www.Hot-Firefighters.com/blog2

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