Becoming a Couple Again

In every relationship you have two people, a couple. The word couple has many definitions, but the first and foremost way to define the word couple is: two of the same sort considered together; pair. As two people spend more time together, usually over a few or many dates, they begin to find similarities between each other. Someone has found someone similar enough that they want to spend their time with.


There are many stages to becoming a couple; meeting, dating, learning through good and hard times, and then the possibility of being one in marriage. Should two people decide to become a couple, roles automatically become established. Dare I say, often some fall into the woman/man, mother/father roles and also live the roll of their occupation as well. With this, couples can lose sight of who the individual was that they had started dating and why they became a couple in the first place.

It is easy to go day to day sometimes without remembering who you are and who the person is that you are committed to and think, "Hey, I've been working so hard (in this role) and no one's done anything thoughtful for me lately. This is boring/not worth it. Where's the reward?" I believe that at that point couples begin to think, "Why can't things be like they used to be? It used to be so fun and easy. Why were things different? How did it get like this? We need that back again!"

Start doing those acts that you did when things were fun and easy! Bring it all back, begin dating again! A couple is never too busy to take time to date and it is never too late. Who says you can't? Remember, as a couple, you are a team; a pair. Going on a date is as good for you as it is for your partner.

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