Women Who dont like sex
There are many reasons behind relationship breakups but the most common have to be sex or lack of it. Many men up and leave because they have found a new playmate. The woman has been shattered as she gave into his every sexual demand and yet he left the relationship for someone else! The nasty fact is, he got bored and moved on, often leaving behind a wife and children.
But often the fault lay fair and square at the woman's feet. Was that fair and just? Sometimes yes.
There are many women who don't like sex. Most will tolerate it for the sake of peace but there are many who have banished the man from the bedroom often making excuses like, he snores to loud or I can't get any sleep because he takes up all the bed or I can't sleep as he is so restless!
Now reality is that many of these women would only be too happy for their man to find someone else and leave but there are many who anguish over their problem and they keep their fingers (and legs) crossed hoping that the husband will stay.
They hope that love will conquer. I personally know of men who have accepted their lot and stayed but most of these men are bitter and can be quite resentful so there is constant tension in the house. There are many reasons why women reject sex.
Childhood abuse must be at the top of the list. Many women suffer sexual abuse from an early age and carry that suffering and dislike for any sexual encounter all their lives. Trouble often is that they have never discussed this issue or sort help. Shame really as sex can be enjoyable. Unfortunately the issue was not sorted before entering into the relationship.
Childbirth comes in close as many women don't get back their sexual desires after having children especially if they have had a few children in a short space of time or a hard labor. Too scary for many.
A lot of women have been bought up by frigid mothers who have brainwashed their daughters against sex.
All women like to feel sensual but some just feel uncomfortable feeling sexual so chances are they will not even try to look or feel sexual because that will send unwanted signals to their partners. It is sad when people cannot get enjoyment or fun out of sex.
For you women who would like to change or renew your interest why not reach out to people who can help you get over your lack of interest issues.
Go out and get some sexy underwear. Get to like yourself again. Look up the net for books to read. Try meditation. Get in touch with your inner senses. There are plenty of ways to be desired but you must first find the desire to be desired.
But often the fault lay fair and square at the woman's feet. Was that fair and just? Sometimes yes.
There are many women who don't like sex. Most will tolerate it for the sake of peace but there are many who have banished the man from the bedroom often making excuses like, he snores to loud or I can't get any sleep because he takes up all the bed or I can't sleep as he is so restless!
Now reality is that many of these women would only be too happy for their man to find someone else and leave but there are many who anguish over their problem and they keep their fingers (and legs) crossed hoping that the husband will stay.
They hope that love will conquer. I personally know of men who have accepted their lot and stayed but most of these men are bitter and can be quite resentful so there is constant tension in the house. There are many reasons why women reject sex.
Childhood abuse must be at the top of the list. Many women suffer sexual abuse from an early age and carry that suffering and dislike for any sexual encounter all their lives. Trouble often is that they have never discussed this issue or sort help. Shame really as sex can be enjoyable. Unfortunately the issue was not sorted before entering into the relationship.
Childbirth comes in close as many women don't get back their sexual desires after having children especially if they have had a few children in a short space of time or a hard labor. Too scary for many.
A lot of women have been bought up by frigid mothers who have brainwashed their daughters against sex.
All women like to feel sensual but some just feel uncomfortable feeling sexual so chances are they will not even try to look or feel sexual because that will send unwanted signals to their partners. It is sad when people cannot get enjoyment or fun out of sex.
For you women who would like to change or renew your interest why not reach out to people who can help you get over your lack of interest issues.
Go out and get some sexy underwear. Get to like yourself again. Look up the net for books to read. Try meditation. Get in touch with your inner senses. There are plenty of ways to be desired but you must first find the desire to be desired.
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